so I (25M) met this girl (24F) through a friend and we’ve gone on a few dates and she stayed over at my place once. She’s very new to dating and she’s told me that she’s never kissed anyone much less had sex.
Ive been in 2 long term relationships that lasted 3 years for both. I got broken up with 2 months ago.
She’s fun to talk to. She’s funny but she’s screaming red flags to me but the physical attraction just draws me in. She’s kind of a homebody and I let her known that like I’m looking for fun and she’s not even sure what she’s looking for.
We’re both going to move from the city we met at for graduate school next year probably but i’m just not sure how to approach this because the only inexperience dating experience i’ve had was my first serious relationship where we were both virgins.
I’m being told by some of my female coworkers that the first kiss and the first time are important and I don’t doubt that I can do that if she wants to, it’s more about the potential consequences like if she actually becomes obsessed. She did tell me that she has no idea what she wants and she’s only dating bc she’s 24 now. Ideally I can give her experience but she’s saying some very red flag 🚩 things like how she’s looking forward to her first divorce or that she blocked her entire family LOL
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